How to Buy Your Girlfriend the Perfect Gift

Having trouble buying the perfect gift for your girlfriend? Well, not anymore! Read on and you'll see a happy face when she opens the box!

Steps

1. Base your gift ideas on your girlfriend's interests, style, or activities.
   
   
   
2. Make a unique handmade gift for her. Whether it be a hemp bracelet or something else, it doesn't really matter. It's the effort that counts. Undoubtedly she'll love anything you make for her.
   
   
   
3. Give her something personal. An engraved tennis bracelet, for example. Or a hand-painted portrait. Give her sometime that no other woman on the planet has.
   
   
   
4. Think of an inside joke or something you share together. Take the opportunity to expand on a shared moment together. Maybe you two are Star Trek geeks. A cozy night at home with a full collection of Star Trek Blu-ray discs might be appropriate. Something personal like this is great if you are really close.
   
   
   
5. Be creative. Think of something simple to give her. There's no need to be extravagant. Sometimes it's the simplest things that work the best.
   
   
   
   • Buy her a flower, and if you are close to where she lives, leave it on her step. Also leave a little note saying something like "I'm thinking of you." Even if the girl doesn't like flowers, she will like that fact that you're thinking of her and think it's kind of romantic. Roses are pretty, but a little over-rated. Sunflowers are a total yes for almost all girls.
   • Look at her iPod or smartphone if she has one. See what artists she has a lot of songs from, and maybe get her a CD from that artist that she doesn't have. She'll appreciate that you're making an effort to get into 'her' music.
6. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Consult her friends or her mother for gift ideas. Friends and parents have good gifts ideas. After all, they've known your girlfriend longer than you have! Without a doubt they'd love to help you.
   
   
    
7. Ask her! When all else fails, ask your girlfriend what she'd like. This will take the surprise out of it, but at least you'll get her something she wants and needs. If you're buying a Christmas or birthday gift, ask your girlfriend for a list. In this way she won't know exactly what she's getting.
   
   
    

   
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How to Get a Girl to Fall for You

Have you always had bad luck with a certain girl? Here's your chance to get her!

Steps

1. Become friends with the desired girl. It is very important that she knows who you are before you even take a step at asking her out.
   
   
2. Be polite. This will work especially if she is a romantic. (At school) Offer to hold her books while she is opening her locker. If you are already holding books of your own, it will make the offer seem even more sweet by going out of your way to help her. Also, hold doors open for her (It really works!)
3. Be very nice whenever she is around you.
4. Be nice to her friends. Her friends have a huge influence on who she will date. Get to know her friends so they are on your side.
5. If she invites you anywhere, go. Be loyal, but don't be a little lost puppy. If you already have plans, don't break them for her. Promise you will make it up to her, and take her out another time. She will never realize how much she misses you if you are always around!
6. Eventually, she should start to let you know very intimate things about her. (Family, friends, personal issues, etc.) That is when you know that she is beginning to really trust you.
7. Don't say something stupid or immature. If something isn't funny and is meant as a joke, don't be stupid. It will make you look bad in front of her.
8. Avoid subjects which may be offensive to the girl in question. For instance politics, discrimination in the workplace, vegetarianism and religion should probably all be avoided for the time being. Also, if the object of your affections happen to have a contentious or opposing position, keep an open mind and if all else fails be non-committal.
9. Be an active listener. Show her that you are someone that she can converse with and get along with. For instance, if she mentions a favorite band/ book/ movie, check it out, you'll have a common interest to discuss in the future. Girls are impressed by guys who make an effort not just to listen, but to show interest and remember details.
10. Finally, take the plunge and ask her out on a date! Never, ever ask her out online - texting/over the phone goes with online! It shows lack of confidence and she most likely would want you to ask her out in person. You are now friends, so finding a chance to ask her should not be a problem!
    
    

    
    

Tips

• Try this in your social group or with people who are like you
• When you're ready, try someone new and different.
• Be true to yourself.
• Smile at her.
• Be Smart. Let her get to know you.
• A girl likes it when you're open and honest. Be yourself!
• Some girls hate when you're shy, but not all girls. If the girl you like isn't very shy, you shouldn't be either. Act confident (though not cocky) and speak up!
• Hang out with her, but not too much. Hang out, don't stalk.
• Keep good hygiene and your chances of success will increase dramatically!
• Look in her eyes; by looking at one eye and then at the other one -- changing every so often -- but do not stare at her chest or at her body! This way of looking at her shows her that you respect her and like her as a person.
• Talk, don't just keep staring in her eyes!
• Compliment her- her eyes, smile, hair, etc. BUT don't be a creeper and compliment her butt or boobs-- any girl who likes that isn't worth your time.
• Make sure that she:
  
  
  • Will talk to you nicely
  • She teases you at times
  • Is kind of friendly --
  • If so then she is ready enough for you to ask her out...

 Warnings

• Don't ignore her, be mean, bully her, be gross, or overdo your flirting.
• Don't bring other girls around even if you are just friends-it will make her insecure about your 'situation'
• Don't talk about previous relationships (or hook ups) too soon
• Don't brag! Whatever you do, it will make her like you less. Even if you feel it is necessary.
• Don't force it; if you feel like there's no connection or energy when you talk, then she's probably not a great match.
• Don't swear. If they don't have a problem with it, then use swearing playfully. If she does have a problem with swearing, then don't swear.
• Be authentic. Always tell the truth about your desires, values, etc. This commands respect, where as walking on egg shells makes people uncomfortable.
• Don't try to make fun of her and assume she'll like you. It never works.
• Don't be mean about other people.
• Don't be creepy!
• Don't say that you've lost your job.
• Don't spend more money on a girl than you should.

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First Date Do's for Women

How to Dress, What to Say, and How to Have a Great Time

There's no better way to spend time than getting to know a guy on a first date.

Many gals get very nervous when it comes to meeting a new man, but with a few common sense tips any date can be a success. Here are a few things that will keep your first date a positive experience.

Be on Time

Being fashionably late for five or ten minutes still leaves a poor impression. It says that you don't care enough about the person you are meeting or his schedule.

While some women arrive a bit late so they won't have to uncomfortably sit alone for their date to show up, a better option is to choose a coffee date for your first outing. A coffee date will allow you to comfortably sit by yourself (if necessary) while people come and go.

Dress Appropriately

First dates are about looking your best, so a tasteful outfit paired with an understated amount of makeup is most appropriate. Girls should be cautious however, in taking care to avoid wearing anything too sexy or low cut. You want to get to know your first date, not tease him the entire night.

Actively Engage in Conversation

Men communicate differently than women. They will often talk about themselves at great length in an effort to make good first date conversation.
Women, on the other hand, tend to listen politely as the guy talks. But some men might think their date is boring if she doesn't speak up. Rather than sitting back and waiting for a break in the conversation, girls should make a concerted effort to interject points into the conversation, even if it means interrupting.

Have Fun On a First Date

Sometimes women can read a lot into a guy's behavior on a first date. A girl might spend an entire evening wondering about whether a man is husband material or not, instead of just enjoying the date and having fun.
Rather than getting caught up in fantasies about the future, relax and enjoy spending time with your date. After all, if he has a great time with you, it will probably mean he'll ask you out again.
First dates are all about getting to know someone new, which can be a fun and exhilarating experience. Make your very first impression a positive one by showing up on time, dressing appropriately, and actively being a part of the conversation. Don't read too much into a first date. Instead, relax and enjoy your night out.

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How to Get a Girl to Like You

Steps

1. Have your own life. If you tend to fall into the "friend zone", this will be especially important. Real girls (girls with a strong sense of purpose and self-worth) don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Some girls do like that, but for all the wrong reasons—–either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who have a need for dominating guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interest, hobbies and goals.
   
   
   
   
   
2. Make an impression. There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill, talent or something difficult to do that you're proud of, like playing guitar and singing in tune at the same time, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too. Impress her, but do not boast too much about your great achievements and plans.
   
   
   
3. Be her friend. Girls don't just fall for random strangers. (Well, some do, but the relationship never goes very far!) If you're in the same lecture or tutorial as her, find out her name. Every time she walks into the room, smile at her. Sometimes this is all it takes for a young woman to notice you. At the same time though, don't do this too often! It will just end up looking like you're obsessed with her. But if you talk to other women too, like friends of yours, then she'll see that you're all there. If she doesn't seem to see you, when she walks by, just say "Hi _______," in a friendly way. This way she'll know you exist.
   
   
   
   • If she's shy, she might just smile back, so don't take this as a sign that she doesn't like you!
   • If you want your relationship to move ahead, don't get stuck in the quicksand - that is the 'Friend Zone'. Sometimes a girl won't go out with you because she's afraid if the relationship ends badly, she'll lose your friendship! To start moving things along, be a little flirty; a woman will only be intimate with a man she knows, trusts and cares about, and this can only be achieved with taking the time to get to know her through friendly chat.
4. Speak to her. Don't just admit that you like her, then be completely silent. If you talk to her once in a while, then she knows you still like her. If you're completely silent, then she will think that you don't like her and she won't like you either. If your conversation skills need a polish, read a few of these:
   • How to have a great conversation
   • How to come up with good conversation topics
   • How to start a conversation when you don't have anything to talk about.
5. Flirt. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact and smile. Strike up a casual conversation. Most importantly, relax. The more you talk to girls, the more relaxed you'll become. Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or if you have something stuck to your teeth. She may be just as nervous, and small mistakes will likely go unnoticed or will simply be ignored. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment. Just be careful that you don't get so caught up in the moment that you say or do something you might regret later.
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   Talk to her. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and find out what gets her excited. Be positive. If you had a bad day, still greet her pleasantly with a big smile. Most importantly, listen to everything she says. Whether she talks about herself, her family, hobbies or anything, pay attention. Some things could be useful or important to know later in the relationship. Nod to show that you're listening, and also respond to what she says so she knows that you really are listening. Women are very appreciative of guys who demonstrate sincere interest in what they say.
   
   
   
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   Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy bears) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique; find and do things that only she would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Girls easily notice if you still remember things they told you a long while ago. Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know––better than anyone else in the world—–what makes her unique.
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   Break the touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. If she's worried, put your hand lightly on her shoulder to comfort her. These are all polite ways to get a little closer to someone without being creepy. Women feel touch more sensitively than most men, even if they put up a tough front, so make sure the touching is light; for example, don't slap her on the back. If you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.
   
   
   
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   Compliment her. If you really like someone, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt, etc.), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other women have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills. If you're not sure what's good or bad complimenting, read How to Compliment Girls.
   • You can tell her she's beautiful only about once or twice. If you're going to compliment her, compliment her on her personality, how good she is at something, how she does things, etc. If she's very pretty, it's likely that several other guys have already mentioned it to her; it may sound trite after a while. Complimenting her appearance too much may make her think you're shallow and maybe that you just want to have sex with her, and you don't want to give that impression.
10. Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is a classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only way. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that will make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not illegal, of course). Laughter will come by itself if both of you are relaxed and enjoying each other's company.
11. Ask her out. Invite her to go somewhere or to do something with you. Make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something you're proud of. Alternatively, you can express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. If you aren't yet ready or comfortable with the idea of sharing your personal lives to that extent, just go out for lunch or do something simple together, maybe with a small group of friends, where you can get to know her better.
    
    
    
12. Look Good. Keep yourself in good shape and well groomed. Work out run a mile or two, do some sit ups, get a six pack, etc. Just don't overdo it; girls don't like it when you have too many muscles, as that just shows that you love your muscles possibly more than you'd love her. The main point is to keep fit. And whatever your age or looks, being well groomed will set you apart from men who can't be bothered. Every girl likes to know that the guy she's keen on looks after himself and cares about his presentation to the world.
    • If you want to get a woman to like you, basic cleanliness and appearance makes a huge difference on your success in the dating zone. Brush your teeth, shave etc. When you take care of yourself, it makes you more appealing to others, whether dating or not, and it will have an impact on your level of confidence. If you are going to see that "special someone", make sure you're feeling and looking your best. Girls notice things like bad breath, scruffy faces and greasy hair before they notice that winning personality. Give them a chance to see your good qualities by making a good first impression.
13. Give her high value. Women want to feel important and valued; do not pay only two pennies for her when she knows she is worth fifty pennies, figuratively speaking. When communicating with her, make an effort to say more rather than less and to keep things personal rather than generic. When you want to ask her out or to do something with you, ask in person, preferably at her home. She needs to know that you're prepared to go the extra mile and not wuss out on her.
14. After there’s a bit of mutual attraction, start throwing out low-level “bait”––little jokes that hint at interest––to see if she bites. A good baiting statement should be light and playful, and usually ambiguous. There’s a certain look a woman will give you if you get that right (and if she’s the right girl to begin with). It’s like you gave her the secret handshake. She’ll look back at you for a couple of seconds, wondering if you “get it” or if you just accidentally stumbled on the right words. When she does this, hold eye contact, and don’t react. Wait for her to say the next thing. “Baiting” is how women flirt too, so be on the lookout for things she might be “joking” about or things that could have a double meaning.
15. Take your time. Don't be pushy or needy. Nice girls normally need longer time than boys to develop deeper feelings. Continue courting her by following the steps above, but don't rush things. If you end up in a relationship with this girl, she'll always remember how you made her feel when you were just getting to know each other. Make her feel appreciated, not invisible or smothered. Do the chase slowly, gently but steadily, to allow her to get accustomed to a new man in her life, reduce the fear of sexual advances (if any), and for you to look less desperate. Do not force the relationship; carefully look for clues on where and when you can see her again.
16. Be yourself. You are unique. Be the authentic you. Bring out your best. Let her know you as who you truly are. Use your talents, gifts, and strengths and let yourself be known. If you have great sense of humor, share that with her. If you love science, music, poetry, politics, or sports, let her know what you love. The right woman will fall for you and love you just the way you are.
    
    

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How to Propose to a Woman

1. • You've probably already been thinking this over for some time. It's a big step but also one that many more have already made. The important thing is to know that you love her and consider her to be "the one". Write down or think through a list of all the reasons that make you want to marry her. This will be important for expressing your love to her at the proposal, as well as confirming to yourself that you're making the right decision.
   • Avoid discussing your plans too widely with others, as it can soon filter back to her through the grapevine.
   • Psych yourself up for continuous wedding talk and preparations once you've asked her. It's useful to have an idea in your own mind about the length of time you'd like between the engagement and the wedding, realizing that she'll have her own ideas about this too.
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   If the parents are old-fashioned and your significant other wouldn't find it offensive or sexist, you could consider asking her parents for permission.
   If the parents are old-fashioned and your significant other wouldn't find it offensive or sexist, you could consider asking her parents for permission. Although asking a father's permission is considered by many to be old-fashioned, it hasn't died out precisely because it's a gesture that suggests that you respect her and her family and that you're always going to be considerate of her family. It's also a sign of politeness, and what family can resist that?
   • Put her first – is this something that would be important to her and her family? Or is it something that might make her cringe? Or maybe she is estranged from her family. Take your cues from your knowledge of her existing situation and preferences. You should know her well enough by now.
   • Another modern twist on asking for permission is to do so after you've proposed. This can be a way of ensuring that your wife-to-be is the first to be asked but she's aware that you still intend to bring her family right into the fold by asking; this can also be a good excuse to turn up together to share the news. Some people consider that this is the "wrong way around" but it's still a sign of respect, and frankly, it's your choice.
   • If it isn't possible to ask her father, ask her mother.
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   Decide when to propose. It's important to get the timing right, and timing is really only something that you can work out. It's not possible to say that there are perfect times to propose but it is important that you propose at a time when you're not rushed and when you feel calm, sorted, and ready. Once you've planned the proposal in as much detail as possible, then the time will be right. Some things to keep in mind though:
   • Is there a meaningful day to the both of you? Such as an anniversary of your relationship or first date, or some other commemoration?
   • Sometimes the time chooses itself by sheer practicality, especially if the two of you are living in different cities and come together for a special holiday event and this is your only chance to ask her.
   • Consider the time of year she wants to get married. It's helpful to ask her or indirectly through her friends or family if there is a certain season, month, or length of time she wants to be engaged in order to plan the wedding without feeling overwhelmed or rushed.
   • Proposing on special holidays or birthdays has advantages and drawbacks. On the one hand, these days can make the occasion more meaningful, especially if family is gathered around or it's a time of great joy. On the other hand, you will always share your proposal date with the holiday date; if you want to celebrate your engagement date, this can make it feel less impersonal for some, while for others, it's a great way to remember!
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   Decide where you will propose. The place and atmosphere of the proposal will be remembered forever and the most important thing to remember is that you are the principal creator of the atmosphere! Naturally, you can propose absolutely anywhere but it helps to choose a place that will be meaningful for both of you and where you can feel comfortable, calm, and natural.
   • Where are her favorite places? Does the love the beach, sunsets, tall buildings, bridges, cityscapes, nature, etc.? Or perhaps she'd appreciate a private screening in the local cinema?
   • What is practical? The harder you try to create a special occasion, the more things can go wrong. Sometimes it's just easier to focus on what you know will work and will be appreciated by both of you.
   • Consider romantic places such as the beach, a botanical garden, a famous restaurant with an amazing view, a covered bridge, a picnic, etc.
   • Consider the things the two of you love doing together. Perhaps this can serve as a source of inspiration, such as proposing when you're out camping, fishing, sailing, hiking, cycling, attending a sports event, traveling somewhere, etc.
   • Make reservations if you need to. If you're proposing somewhere like a restaurant where you need to be able to get the best table, etc., be sure to reserve it well in advance.
5. Decide how you will propose. Once you've decided the when and the where, the intimate details of the how need consideration. Naturally, there is the ring to produce but what other elements do you want to add into the mix to make this an especially memorable and romantic occasion for her? Bear in mind that the manner in which you propose will be retold by her many times over, so make sure it's good! There are many possibilities and it's entirely up to you what you do but for some inspiration, here are some suggestions:
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     Try the traditional pose. Bend down on one knee, take her hand in yours and ask her to marry you. The beauty of this gesture is that it's universally recognized thanks to the movies, and it can be performed anywhere. Just note that if there are other people around, they'll be eavesdropping (kindly!), so expect their interest and support.
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     Think about things that might accompany the occasion, such as a quartet playing a tune or a serenade, or a tiny fireworks display, etc.
     Think about things that might accompany the occasion, such as a quartet playing a tune or a serenade, or a tiny fireworks display, etc. These sorts of extras are not necessary and they will bloat the budget unless you've got willing friends to help out, but if it's your kind of thing, they can add to the atmosphere.
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     Hide the ring. This is another popular method for proposing that requires her to find the ring, and then you do the proposing. Places to hide a ring include inside flowers, chocolates, or a special gift. be sure to ask her to open the gift at the time, or you might be waiting ages! And take great care not to hide it somewhere that she can accidentally swallow it; that'll put a big dent in the occasion.
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     Be creative. If you're not so traditional or you're not that keen to say the proposal yourself, there can be a number of other ideas for proposing that involve some more planning but can be really entertaining as well as confirming for her that you're the kooky guy she wants to spend the rest of her life with. You could prepare her very own word puzzle or crossword in which the final answer spells "Will you marry me?". Or you could have a plane write the question across the sky as the two of you are walking along. Perhaps use publicity, such as taking out an advertisement in the paper that you know she'll read, or getting her favorite radio DJ to announce the proposal, or place a big banner with the question on it over a bridge she drives under every day.
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   Look for a ring. Ask her mom or best friend what her ring size is. If you don't know, get a temporary ring, and then get another after you propose; for many women, choosing their own ring is the preferred option.
   • Read How to choose an engagement ring for more information.
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     Or just wear whatever's practical!
   Be dressed in your best according to the occasion and choice of place. Dress well to be sure that you're as handsome and attractive as can be. This is a very special occasion and it deserves to be "picture perfect". She'll appreciate the effort you've gone to.
   • Naturally, this only applies where you're planning to propose somewhere elegant and you have time to change beforehand. If you're proposing on the beach, during a hike, skiing, or as you're skydiving, use your common sense about what to wear!
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   Practice. If you're going to propose, it pays to practice. Practice asking, and practice explaining the reasons as to why you love her so much that you want to spend the rest of your life with her. This will help you avoid being tongue-tied when the important moment comes up.
   • Keep the proposal simple, to the point, and from the heart. For example: "Melody, I love you more than words can ever express. You're the most thoughtful, generous, kind, and beautiful woman I've ever had the fortune to know and I'd be honored to have the chance to spend my life with you. Will you marry me?"
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    Seal it with a kiss!
   After double-checking everything, go forth and propose. There is no time like the present to move on with your carefully thought through plan. Bring her along to "the place" and start unfolding your plans. Be sure that you don't give things away by touching the ring in your pocket constantly, or saying daft things. Some things to bear in mind post-proposal:
   • There may be tears, screaming, or shock. Don't be phased, these are fairly standard reactions, even if she has every clue of what you're about to do. It's not real to her until it's done!
   • If she says yes, end the proposal with a kiss or a hug.
   • If she says no, react with understanding and don't be petulant. She may need time to think and a memory of your sour face and grumpy attitude will leave a bad impression in her mind. Be a gentleman.

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how to ask a gal for a date?

how to ask out a gal for a date..??

Asking a girl for a date should be easy. All you have to do is ask, right? But it's not always that simple if you're shy or nervous. At some point though, you're going to have to step up and be bold, or forever be left to wonder what would have happened. Read these guidelines, draw some courage and ask her out.

Steps

Before Your First Contact

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   Gauge her interest. Is she making eye contact with you? Is she smiling, laughing and having a good time talking to you? If so, you're on the right track. What if she keeps looking at you because she's annoyed with you always looking at her? This is not a good sign, and the girl might be a little stressed herself. Make sure to keep your feelings about her private, and not so obvious.
   
   
   
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   Notice how often she touches you. If she's constantly trying to touch your hand or finds excuses to do so, then she's probably interested. However, don't assume that she doesn't like you if she isn't touching you. Likewise, don't start touching her if she isn't making contact with you. This usually scares or intimidates girls. If she won't even look at you, stay calm and find excuses to talk to her.
   
   
   
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   Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold your gaze for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these signs could mean that she likes you. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she doesn't like you, or she does like you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. If she's looking at you in a mean way, check your teeth. If she pulls away quickly, it could mean she is nervous but still likes you.
   
   
   
   • Remember that if you are having a conversation, girls tend to look at your face, so don't immediately assume that she likes you if you are speaking and she is simply listening. If you never talk to the girl, chances are you have a low chance of dating her. Friendships lead to loveship, but non-friendship leads to.... nothing.

Interact With Her

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   Look directly at her. While talking, make sure to look at her face and specifically her eyes. Pay attention to what she is saying so that when she asks you something or stops talking, you can continue the conversation intelligently. Don't get caught staring at her body (especially her breasts). Very few women like this. If she doesn't look at you or she ignores you, back off, and leave her alone for a little. Some girls don't like looking boys in the eyes and talking. Read her body language.
   
   
   
   
   
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   Help her out. Offer to carry something heavy, get her lunch at the office or do something nice for her. If she refuses, then wait until she really needs help or comforting, like when she's feeling down and having a bad day. Be friendly and outgoing to her. If she walks away quickly, don't follow her or say, "What??" just keep on going.
   
   
   

Pop the Question

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   Make sure you look and smell nice. You don't need to get decked out in a suit and tie to ask a girl out, but make sure your clothes are clean and well-fit, that you've brushed your teeth and are wearing deodorant. You should never EVER wear the same clothes again, like you wear red sweatpants Monday, and then you wear them again on Tuesday.
   
   
   
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   Approach the girl you like. Don't worry about coming up with something overly clever. Simply say "Hi" or "Hey." As the conversation moves forward you can give her a complement or ask her a question.
   
   
   
   • If starting conversations is not your strong point, read these articles:
     
     • How to Talk to Strangers
     • How to Come Up with Good Conversation Topics
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   Keep the tone casual and fun. Don't make the occasion seem like a big deal. Flirt a little! Relax, crack a joke, and break the touch barrier.
   
   
   
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   When the time is right, ask her for a date. Ask her to go the movies or something else you both would be interested in. You could also invite her out to happy hour at a bar you both enjoy. Try to make it original.
   
   
   
   • You might say: "I heard about this movie, _______. What do you think about it?" If she says she thinks it looks good, ask her if she'd like to go with you to see it. If she asks "As in a date?" say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves much better than they do the cowardly guys.
   • Another thing you might say while keeping the tone casual is: "I was going to check out this art opening on Saturday night. Do you want to go with me? I think it would be fun if we both went together."
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   Be confident. If she questions if you're asking her on a date, say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves.
   
   
   
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   Be prepared for rejection. Keep your cool if she says no, smile and respond gracefully by saying, "No problem! Maybe another time." Change the conversation to something else or leave if you'd rather not hang around. Act as if you don't need her, because that sometimes will pique the interest of a girl. If she makes a face and yells, "Oh my gosh, no way!" this means that the girl is grossed out with you. Leave her alone and move on to another girl. Don't get your feelings too hurt though, this will leave you lifeless. Some girls just don't like this kind of stuff.
   
   
   

Tips

• Ask her out when you both are alone. Having others around will put pressure on her to say yes or no and you want her true answer.
• If you tend to date around a lot, then a girl might get turned off for you being a player. Girls tend to go out with guys that can be trustworthy and can keep a relationship. The worst thing for a girl is when a guy asks her out and then breaks up with her quickly.
• Ask her out directly. Asking by e-mail or social media outlets like Facebook will be seen as impersonal. Most girls will admire your confidence if you are not arrogant about it.
• Being relaxed and confident is the difference between a comfortable silence and an unbearable silence. It's natural to have breaks in the conversation. Don't sweat it. She's probably nervous too.
• Don't be afraid of rejection. Most girls have big hearts and will let you down very easily, if at all. Some girls will agree to go on one date just because you asked and they're being nice. Don't take it the wrong way. It simply means she likes you enough to not hurt your feelings but not enough that she's ready for a relationship.
• When you approach the girl, try to start the conversation by saying, "Hey, can I talk to you?" or "Can I ask you something?" This is a good way to blindside a girl. You want your conversation to be as smooth as possible.
• Sometimes girls can be nervous when guys approach them. If they bite their lip, look away, blush a lot or show any signs of nerves, give them time to think about it. After two or three weeks, casually ask again and they may say yes.
• Remember that every girl is different and these tips do not apply for every girl so use your own judgement too.

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